Uncommon Sense

August 30, 2024

A Sense of Belonging

I was writing recently on the “meaning of life” (Yes, again . . . or maybe even still.) and I am referring here to some overarching meaning of life in general, not about bringing meaning into your life or creating meanings and purposes.

My opinion is that there is no such thing, and only theists promote it (or rather hijacked the concept) as something only their god can provide us. (It makes sense that imaginary gods bring imaginary benefits.)

I have suggested that there are a great many things people want ahead of learning what this mystical meaning of life is, one of which I suggested was acceptance by one’s fellows. Since then I have been thinking (on and off, not full time) about a sense of belonging.

I remember as a child I was something of a show-off, my most common utterance when on vacation was “Hey, mom, look at me!” In retrospect, most people as children seem to want to be seen, recognized, accepted, etc. But when we grow up, that desire fades a great deal at least as an overt display.

I remember reading a poll that listed “public speaking” as one of the greatest fears of people in society, it just barely edged out “appearing nude at an airport.” (Okay, I made up that joke decades ago and haven’t used it in a while and, well, use it to lose it is my watch phrase.)

So, what happened to all of those kids? I think society happened. As a social species and all that underlies them, such as there is safety in numbers, et. al., there is pressure, often terrific pressure, to conform. Basically we are on display and we want to display that we belong. So, we wear similar clothes, we eat the same foods, we go to the same churches, we talk the same way, and so on. When addressing “others” people often point to things like “they look funny,” or “they all look alike, I can’t tell them apart,” and even to “they smell funny.” Others are not trying to “belong” to our group and so dress differently, eat different foods (and so smell different), and so on. When “foreigners” want to fit in they adopt local dress, local foods, learn the language, etc. At the same time, at home, they try to retain a sense of belonging to the social group they left, but out in society the message was conform, conform, conform.

And this isn’t just white people prejudices. In the past, I don’t know about now, the Japanese sneered at Koreans as being uncouth and being “garlic eaters.” Of course, barbarians are just folks who do not speak your language.

So, as society molds us, we adapt by trying not to stand out, we want to “fit in,” and be accepted as “one of us.”

So, what does this all mean? Damned if I know. Meanings are things that humans identify, recognize, etc. If all of the human beings were to magically disappear, so would all meanings and purposes. They only exist in the minds of humans. But that doesn’t mean they don’t have power.

I have said often enough that meanings and purposes are things we create or adopt (if offered to be shared by others) to give direction to our lives, to create order in our lives. And if those are shared, well, they fit into our sense of belonging, too.

Safety in numbers, baby, safety in numbers.

August 29, 2024

Free Market Bullshitters

I ran across this quote in a blog recently: “. . . I recently engaged in a conversation with a ‘politically agnostic’ economist whose detached perspective from political tribalism allowed her to offer insights into how free markets could benefit society.”

How free markets could benefit society . . . hmm. I think that might be fine as long as on the other pan of the balance was stacked all of the “how free markets could harm society” aspects.

This seems to be yet another example of an economic presuppositionalist apologist. These are people who preach the merits of free markets, assuming them to be net good things but they have one rather large problem. They cannot point to any such thing ever having existed in anything like a modern society, let alone a successful one. In other words, they do not exist. If they did exist I am sure that they would offer something but what that is is debatable. The historical examples of trying to impose such systems, e.g. The Chicago Boys in Chile, have been disastrous.

The major flaw in capitalism is simple: there is no control over human greed.

The major flaw in capitalism is simple: there is no control over human greed. Currently, in the U.S., we have business leaders saying things like “competition is for suckers” and their main goal is “market domination,” or if they are being cute and precise, “domination of their market segment.” These things are what we call monopolies. Of course, competition is touted as the main cog in the machine of capitalism, but there is no mechanism to preserve or enhance it, so the greedy immediately set out to eliminate it. In its absence there is no one to offer better prices, better service, etc. so they can set their own prices, levels of service, and most importantly, their profit margins.

Free market capitalists also gloss over that there are two primary modes of such intercourse. The Basic Law of the Tribe is that we compete with others, but we cooperate with other members of our tribe. Competition creates winners and losers, consider, for example, sports competitions. Inside of our “in group” we do not want to have any losers, so we cooperate rather than compete. This is why competition in education is a lousy idea, but is still touted by these people as a good idea, because competition works so well in the world of commerce. Yo, business dudes, if it works so well why are you hell bent on eliminating it in your “market segment?” Do we really want our kids to be actively segregated into classes of “winners” and “losers,” by our educational system? We generally consider that to be a failure of our current system. Can you consider your family gathered around your dinner table, but only the kids who did well in school that day get to eat? The others need motivation to work harder, right? Competition is good . . . always, right?

The Basic Law of the Tribe is that we compete with others, but we cooperate with other members of our tribe.

August 28, 2024

Yeah, Right, Reich!

Filed under: Culture,Politics — Steve Ruis @ 8:48 am
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A recent blog post by Robert Reich has the title “Should Harris give more details about what she’ll do as President?” Yeah, right. Now that Donald Trump has renounced “Project 2025,” he has provided us with a large number of specifics about what he actually plans to do instead, like, uh, like. . . .

Providing specifics is like throwing red meat at Trump supporters, they will tear into any such and distort them and create a whole new set of lies. For example Harris indicated that unsupportable price hikes on groceries and other staples would have to be addressed, maybe through an excess profits tax as has been done before. Trump supporters immediately morphed this into “Price controls, she wants price controls!”

I think the wise thing to do is match Trump specific for specific, which means one as of now. So far, Trump has promised rich people another round of tax cuts for them and Harris has promised to “tax the rich more.” That’s it, I think.

August 27, 2024

PayPal Resolution Process Totally Useless

Filed under: Business,Culture,Uncategorized — Steve Ruis @ 9:25 am
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I am posting this here because none of the buttons labeled “Give Us Feedback” on the pages of my case did anything but blink when clicked.

I complained to PayPal that a software company sold me software, which they claimed was compatible with Windows 11, but when I downloaded their installer, it stopped just after it started, telling me this package was not compatible with Windows 11. I tried their help center, I went looking on their website for the Windows 11 compatible version (no luck), I even did an Internet search to see if others had the same problem (they did). This is a company I had trusted for decades, so I sent in a complaint and got <cricket, cricket, cricket> from them.

So, I opened up a case with PayPal to have them get my money back. They closed that case today . . . denied because the product had been delivered to me.

I very carefully explained in the original complaint that the problem was not that I hadn’t received the “purchase,” but that it wasn’t as described and couldn’t even be installed.

Worthless, worthless.

And, as mentioned above, I couldn’t challenge their closure of my case, nor could I give them feedback, so “Fuck You, PayPal, Fuck You.”

Now I feel better, not forty bucks better, but better.

A Short Book Review: Are Numbers Real?

Filed under: Philosophy,Reason — Steve Ruis @ 9:00 am
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I just saw a book with the title “Are Numbers Real?” I didn’t bother reading even the blurb, let alone the book.

Taking into account that I am a philosophy nerd, who likes to consider totally meaningless questions, e.g. “why is there something rather than nothing?” this one is a bridge too far.

To answer the question in the title: yes, numbers are as real as any other abstract concept.

Everything you need to know about numbers comes from just one question: “If you break a rock in half, what do you have?”

The answer: Two rocks.

August 25, 2024

MSM Seem to Be Ignoring Hezbollah Strategy

Filed under: Uncategorized — Steve Ruis @ 8:12 am

Hezbollah, in Lebanon, has a clear strategy in their conflict with Israel, and the main stream media don’t seem to be noticing. Hezbollah officials have even gone on TV to explain what they are doing.

They have stockpiled very large quantities of inexpensive rockets, drones, etc. (supplied cheaply by their sponsors who are making war on Israeli through willing proxies) and are firing off large quantities of them, not in the hope that that will be particularly effective but so that Israel’s “Iron Dome” defenses will be exhausted. Hezbollah is firing cheap munitions, Israel is firing really expensive counter measures.

As an indicator of Hezbollah’s success, a thirty kilometer band from Lebanon’s border has been evacuated and most of the Israeli defenses there destroyed.

This is not a game and well thought out strategies are being deployed. We have to get the image of a berserker Muslim, firing bullets into the air out of our heads. The Israeli’s would be wise to do so, also.

Democrats Taking Heat for Not Addressing Ukraine or Gaza at DNC

Filed under: Culture,Politics,Social Commentary — Steve Ruis @ 8:09 am
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This I find not at all upsetting. The operative sequence of events in U.S. presidential elections is Step 1: Get Elected, Step 2: Govern. As a consequence of this pattern, these conventions almost never address divisive or even real issues. The GOP national convention did roughly the same. And, yes, I think voters deserve to understand what each candidate’s policies will be were they to be elected but candidate Harris has a big advantage. The GOP has a 900 page document they call Project 2025, that states clearly what they will do , and all Harris need do to get elected when asked, what she will do is point to it and say “Not that.”

Yes, I would prefer open, transparent, yada, yada, statements about the candidate’s governing policies and philosophies, and guiding principles, in fact I am on record that a week before the election, those statements would be “frozen,” that is not subject to amendment, and an agreement signed that the winner agreed to be evaluated upon how well they delivered on their promises in any subsequent election.

And, of course, all politicians are slippery characters and would evade any such attempts to pin them down, but in this case I think Harris’s candidacy is better served by answering questions about her policies by pointing at Project 2025, and saying “Not that; That’s weird.”

Why We Should Abolish Economist as a Profession

If you have ever surveyed any economic debate, the one over the impact of a change in a mandated minimum wage for workers is one most of us are familiar with, the two sides: “For It” and “Agin It,” each have economists on their side. Using the same data, it is all available to all, the two camps of economist come up with completely opposite conclusions.

In other words, they are worthless.

They also are laser focused on the wrong things.

In this county, the U.S. of A., we decided for some reason that our society would be “pay as you go.” You want anything: housing, food, medical care, whatever, you pay for it. If this is the system, then what we want is for the system to support what we want to happen. We want people to be able to “pay their bills.”

So, if someone is working full-time, they should be paid enough to support themselves, that is provide all of their own housing, food, medical care, whatever. This may not be enough to support a spouse and children, but at least that “worker” could take pride in supporting him- or herself. We call that a “living wage” because failing that, you are dying, slowly, but dying.

If that person making his living wage wants to start a family, he might need a working spouse and both of them may need to qualify for and find better paying jobs should they want children, but all of these paths should be well-worn.

So, why does one of our major political parties describe minimum wages, which aren’t even living wages, as being socialism and should be eliminated? This same party supports police brutality as a mode to keep the desperate poor from robbing and whatnot to get food or medicine for their kids. Why not pay them a paltry amount more than you are now and you wouldn’t need so many police?

If we want people’s labor to be honest, and the people working to be honest, why not treat them with dignity and pay a living wage?

Oh, the pet economists on the “We Don’t Need No Stinkin’ Minimum or Living Wage Requirement” crowd will list long arguments supporting their viewpoint, none of which include the worker’s pride, integrity, and humanity into account whatsoever.

We Don’ Need No Stinkin’ Economists or the effing Party of Trump either. If the Party of Trump were to transform itself back into its old self, the loyal opposition to the Democrats, that would be a good thing.

Again With the Effing Meaning of Life

The religious cannot leave this idea alone. Recently I saw this quote in an article on that topic:

People say that what we’re all seeking is a meaning for life. I don’t think that’s what we’re really seeking. I think that what we’re seeking is an experience of being alive, so that our life experiences on the purely physical plane will have resonances within our own innermost being and reality, so that we actually feel the rapture of being alive.—Joseph Campbell, The Power of Myth (1988)

I think the Good Doctor was on the right path. Feeling alive is much higher on any person’s list than being told what the meaning of their life is. But the rapture of being alive isn’t quite the focus I would point to.

I think most of us are starving for being accepted, as we are, not as a composite of the things the acceptor thinks we are. I think we are starving for human touch. Not touch with any intent other than connecting via that touch. We are taught that most touches are naughty, so they are placed off limits, so we all go through our childhoods being touch starved and hence grow into adults being touch staved. Animals can often be seen in groups, all piled up and rolling over on one another. Lions who are mated, rub their faces together, and swat each other’s asses playfully. Humans who did that would be labeled “strange,” instantly.

Imagine a scene in a movie in which a character can’t get anyone to acknowledge his/her existence. What would that scene mean to you? Most people would instantly think, they are a ghost, no one can see them or feel them.

If you aren’t a ghost and I am willing to go out on a limb and say you are not, how would you feel if no one acknowledged your presence? If that were to go on for a week? I would be a puddle of tears, but then I have been told I have a strong feminine side, others just think I am a wimp.

Our basic need for belonging, being recognized, being accepted into a group, even if it is just humanity at large, is huge compared to wanting to know what one’s purpose in life is.

August 24, 2024

Israel Has the Right to Defend Itself!

Filed under: Politics,Uncategorized — Steve Ruis @ 12:07 pm
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Does anyone disagree with the sentiment in the title? Anyone? No? Okay, so is what Israel doing now “defending itself” or is it doing its best to obliterate a roadblock to a utopian future of its own imagining?

Just asking.

When people begin a discourse with “Israel has the right to defend itself” I know all I will be receiving are excuses and obfuscations, so I don’t need to hear or read more.

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